Have you prayed for someone today?
For as he thinks in his heart, so is he...
Modesty, as with all behavior, begins in the heart.
Wesley's notes state:
So is he - You are not to judge of him by his words, but by the constant temper of his mind.
Wow, what's the temper of your mind? Are you sincere in your heart? Or are you just a bunch of words.
Let's not start judging others until we examine our own thoughts. I have met many a "Christian" who was dressed modestly but couldn't wait to "bare-it-all" to me through gossip and judgement of others.
If you see something in someone you think needs changing- pray for that person. Don't shame or embarrass them. Jesus had many opportunities to embarrass and shame those who came to Him. He has reasons to shame us every day! But instead of embarrassing the "guilty party," He shows us where the true guilt lies - in our own flesh.
Think of the adulteress woman who was to be stoned in John 8, He quickly gave forgiveness to her and shamed the scribes and Pharisees who condemned her.
Let's all take note of that.
There are many warnings of this line of thought -
"Let him without sin cast the first stone," (John 8:7)
"Take the plank out of your own eye first," (Matt 7:5) and
Prov 3:7"Do not be wise in your own opinions."
What ever you want to change, start in your thoughts. Whatever you think needs changing in another start with prayer for her.
This will give you time to think and pray and consider what you are doing with love as your primary motivation.
While you're dressing your body modestly, do the same with your mind.
Keep your thoughts pure, keep them under control, and you will develop a heart to match it.
Thanks for stopping by. I hope you found this post useful and may God richly bless you today:)